Father of 6 and 8 year old
At the point I started parenting coaching with Nina I thought I was doing ‘OK’ as a father. There were, however, some points where conflict kept coming up, such as at bedtimes. I’d say things that were just mean, things I didn’t really believe but would just come flying out. The rest of the evening would involve a fair amount of self-loathing and the following day would start with apologies.
Nina’s kindness, curiosity, and unique way of thinking about things, helped me challenge the statements I was making.
A real eye-opening session involved learning to view situations and actions through my children’s eyes. This helped me to change and empathise. Switching my viewpoint allowed situations to evolve into an opportunity for connection, rather than escalate into more anger and tears.
Nina was pivotal to my journey. Through effective questions, coming from a place of love and kindness, of genuinely wanting to help you improve your relationships, Nina transformed my relationships with my family! And bedtimes are much calmer now too!